The Best Sex Positions to Try with Your Sex Doll

• Standing doll required: ❌
• Upgraded skeleton required: not for most
• Easy on the back: ✅

If there are two main positions everyone wants to try, it’s doggy and cowgirl. But for some people, especially new doll owners, getting their dolls into these positions can be difficult, not to mention awkward, because of the size and weight of their dolls. So, before we get started, we need to learn some positioning basics.

Cowgirl is probably the most difficult and sometimes requires a double-jointed or upgraded skeleton — unfortunately, not all dolls were made equal in the skeleton department! We always recommend that if you plan on photography or the more advanced, pretzel-like Kama Sutra positions, you get the best skeleton you can afford. The standing feet option also helps, allowing you to get into more positions.

If you have a doll that is large and difficult to move, or a bad back that prevents you hoisting the doll around, the M position is great for getting you into further positions. Here is what it looks like:

Once the doll is in this position — legs spread, knees bent and rotated, ankles outward to follow the lines of the shins — it should look like an M if observed from the bottom of your bed.

You can then move your legs under the arch of each of her legs so that your thighs are under hers and your naughty bits are touching. Now it’s just a matter of pulling her up by the torso onto your lap, and she’s now riding you.

This is one of the most ergonomically safe ways to get into this position. There should be very little stress on your back and minimal stress on the doll (always watch where her fingers go, as they’re the most delicate!).

Reverse cowgirl should also be possible by manoeuvring yourself around underneath her and swinging her arms back around to your new torso position.

The M position is also great to go back into if you want to finish in missionary — it’s a very versatile and handy starter position!

🔥 Hot tip: remember to use the back joint to arch or hunch the back. This helps tilt the hips so that missionary and doggy are easier to achieve and everything lines up nicely.

Here is a user describing, from the doll’s point of view, her experiences and a couple of fun extra twists you can try whilst in cowgirl:

“Cowgirl is my absolutely favourite position. There are just so many things you can do with it. There are 4 basic leg positions that help keep it interesting.

1. I can be in a sitting position and have my legs straight out and under (his) armpits. My feet become a pivot point, allowing me to rock up and down.
2. I can bend my knees and get into a squat position. Now my knees are the pivot point, and this is a whole different sensation.
3. I can bend my knees more and get into the traditional cowgirl position. I can lean forward and cross my arms on (his) chest. In this position, he is free to thrust up into me.
4. And finally, I can shift to a fully prone position on top of (him) and bring my legs tightly together.”

— Daria, TDF

• Standing doll required: ❌ (if forward-facing)
• Standing doll required: ✅ (if rear-facing, using feet to stabilise)
• Upgraded skeleton required: ❌
• Easy on the back: ✅

Turns out, furniture is a great tool for getting into new positions. You can try the stairs, over the table, anywhere around the house really — but a good one is simply sitting in a chair.

It is super easy on your back, and the doll can straddle you and give you good eye contact. If the chair is an armchair, you can put the doll’s legs over the arms and use the armrests as pivot points to bounce the doll up and down — just make sure to hold on and don’t drop her backwards!

Getting her over the arms of the armchair might be a strain for a bigger doll. With those, you could try squatting her over a chair with no arms, or, if she’s a doll with the standing upgrade, you can face her away from you and bounce her up and down on your lap from there.

• Standing doll required: ✅
• Upgraded skeleton required: ❌
• Easy on the back: ✅

The corner of the bed position is a little similar to the rear-facing doll in a chair, but the softness of the bed allows you to get under the doll much more easily, allowing for better and more pleasurable contact. You can also lean right back, or even lie back, whilst bouncing the doll up and down.

It may help to position her on or over a “workout ball” to support her a little better and get that bounce going. This will help make sure she doesn’t fall forwards — but be very careful not to drop her sideways either.

The workout ball is helpful in positions where the doll is bent over. It could even be used for doggy style if it is slightly deflated — this way the doll sinks into it so that it doesn’t slip sideways, and it protects the hands and fingers, which can be fragile.

You’ll want to do this in the middle of the bed, so there’s minimal risk of the doll being thrust out of bed when you start losing control!

• Standing doll required: ❌
• Upgraded skeleton required: ❌
• Easy on the back: ✅

If one of the things you like about doggy style is that the girl can bounce back against your lap, See-Saw Doggy is here to help. Normally, a doll which is flat on the bed for doggy style will simply stay in place, relying on you to do all the work and pushing.

However, if you place a number of pillows or blankets under your doll’s tummy so that she can be pushed away from you but always falls back down butt-first into your lap, you’ve got a doll you can use for doggy where she’s doing most of the work!

A great position for when you love doggy but you are tired or have a bad back.

• Standing doll required: ❌
• Upgraded skeleton required: ❌
• Easy on the back: ✅

If you like to get up close and personal with your doll — good eye contact and good depth — but you’re sick of missionary, try the Scissor position. This is great for when you’re tired or have a sore back, as you lie on your side and only need to make gentle motions to get good penetration and stimulation.

In this position, the doll lies on her back with one leg raised and bent at the knee, and the other leg flat on the bed or slightly bent to best accommodate the man. The man moves under the raised leg so that the leg on the bed is between his thighs, and his crotch is then against the doll. At this point, the raised leg can be placed over the shoulder or positioned wherever is most pleasurable.

This position is a bit like the M position in that it is a good starting position to be in. From here, you can either pull the doll toward you to move her torso over you and into a cowgirl position, or push her away and she will be in doggy.

• Standing doll required: ❌
• Upgraded skeleton required: ❌
• Easy on the back: ✅

Depending on love hole placement (LHP) and whether you’ve got a doll with a fixed or insert vagina, it can sometimes be a bit tricky to get into missionary and stay in when you’re new to dolls. This position is great if you’re still learning the ropes, or even if you’ve had a doll a while and usually just do missionary but want to try something a little different.

Basically, it involves placing enough pillows under the doll’s butt that her vagina is the same height as your penis at kneeling level. The doll’s legs can be straight up in the air for you to hold onto.

This is an ideal position for when your partner is not as tall as you, which is generally going to be the case with dolls. It allows a different angle of penetration, which should increase pleasure, allows good eye contact, and lets you use the legs to change the tightness of your doll — simply bring the legs together or slightly cross them, and the tightness will increase.